jor takes atlanta // duck dynasty // dirty bingo

I realize that it's Wednesday and the weekend is long gone, but I've been leaving in a dream world over here where my weekend guest is still in town.

 

Jordan came in on Saturday and stays until tonight, so we've just been pretending school nights are Friday nights, and loving one another's company.

 

This weekend I was, unfortunately, pretty sick, although I did everything I could to tell myself otherwise. I was doing crazy things that only denial can lead you to do, like going running and baking and keeping my body in motion, pretending I wasn't feeling terrible.

 

Saturday night after Jordan arrived, we went to dinner with my friends at Yeah Burger and out to Ormsby's.

 

 

We had so much fun, but by 11 when I was completely dillusional from the Dayquil, Jor made me admit I was sick forced me home in the way only a really good friend can do.

 

{But for the record, I was fineeeee! :)}

 

Sunday, we went to church for Palm Sunday, then lunch at Cafe Jonah. I have been wanting to try to community brunch at Cafe Jonah for a while, and it was awesome. You pay what you think you owe based on how much you ate, and how much you enjoyed your meal. When you leave, they give you a token to put in a charity's bin of your choosing, and 10 percent of the proceeds for the day go to the charities.

 

 

After that, we watched the IU game with Ben, which was seriously stressful. Those boys kept us watching.

 

Sunday night, I introduced Jor to Cafe 640, then Melissa introduced us both to Duck Dynasty. I'm not sure which is a bigger win among those two, really.

 

Monday after work, Jordan and I decided to go to dinner at Noche, and on our walk home were tempted by a sign outside a restaurant, Diesel, that told us Dirty Bingo started at 8. Feeling slightly adventurous after a glass of wine, we couldn't see a better way to spend our evening. I can't say it's something I'm adding to my Atlanta Bucket List, but if you're looking to spice up a random Monday night, you'll be entertained. The scene was anything but our usual and the Bingo cards read all sorts of words I'm not inclined to type here. But we laughed a lot and made friends with the announcer after Jordan walked in on him in the bathroom. And what more could you want than friends in high places when it comes to Dirty Bingo?

 

 

I tuuuhried to get Jordan to give him her number when we left, but she refused. So, if you know the Dirty Bingo man from Diesel, feel free to holler for our girl.

 

 

I hope you had a wonderful weekend, and your week is off to a great start. Tomorrow is Thursday!

 

:)

 

life lessons a la lug nuts

The other day I had to get work done on my car for (ahem) the second time in two weeks and after enough time at the autoshop, you start making friends. I was talking to one of the mechanics and he asked me what a 317-area code was. When I told him it was Indiana, he said, "Oh! I love Indiana! Y'all have a great ba-"

And at this point I said, "I know!" thinking he was about to say basketball team.

But then he said, "band."

And I said, "I know!" Because it had already come out of my mouth.

But then I didn't actually know, so I had to recover and ask some follow up questions.

Turns out, he plays the saxophone and loves to watch college bands. He especially loves our drummers.

On a normal day, being a Hoosier, people ask me about (1) Peyton Manning or (2) IU Basketball. On a March Madness day, people ask me only about IUBB.

But this guy wanted to talk about the band. So I talked to him about the band, because we were chilling at Pep Boys and he was giving me a discount. So why not talk sax?

When he said it, though, it made my heart happy. Because he was excited to talk about the band, and excited to share his Indiana knowledge with me. And I love finding people's sweet spot - finding exactly what makes them tick. I loved watching his eyes light up as he explained the way they played in sync and won an award. He didn't light up about my lug nuts, but he lit up about those drummers.

And it also made me laugh at myself, because it's amazing how easy it is to get wrapped up in our tiny worlds. My world, where I assume everyone is going to say Indiana basketball. Or where I assume people care about the things I care about - and should align with my thinking. My world; my perspective. And not just where I assume it is that way, but sometimes want it to be that way. 

But that's not how it's supposed to be. Because this world is big and we all have different experiences. We're moving at 10,000 miles per minute - rushing all over town - into Pep Boys, into work, to the grocery, to the gym, out with friends - and it's easy to get wrapped up in these tiny worlds we create. But sometimes we have to slow down, listen a little longer, and allow ourselves to see someone in a new light.  When you do it, you might find that people can surprise you. In fact, you might even surprise yourself. And what's better than that?

Almost nothing. 

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our march madness

This time of year warms my heart and makes me so excited I almost can't breathe for a second. My whole everything is happy and I'm pretty sure my heart jumps out of my chest each time I step outside and feel the increase in humidity, see the longer hours of daylight.

Growing up, this time of year meant one thing, and one thing only: Sandestin.

Every year we made the drive from Zionsville to Sandestin, happily packed in to some sort of mega-large vehicle. There was one trip when we went to Sanibel instead and it turned out to be a Red Tide year and there were dead animals all over the beach. And I don't technically think it's Sanibel's fault, but after that, we never ventured anywhere but Sandestin and Rosemary Beach for our family spring break. The Emerald Coast has our hearts.

 

Later in life our cousins starting joining us in Sandestin too, which made it that much more of a party.

It was at this point that things really got good for us Hoosiers, because our bracketology went from being a tournament from afar, to us being able to watch the games together - over feasts, with sunkissed skin and the kind of happy exhaustion that comes only from a long day at the beach. We basically created our very own version of March Madness.

Now, as we're living far apart - from Colorado to Texas to Indiana to D.C. and all sorts of stops along the way, our pool remains in tact. And it's the kind of tradition that makes me almost as happy as the balmy spring itself. It's something you know you can count on - that the email from my uncle, Mikey, will hit our inboxes. That the inevitable trash talk will come next. That my mom will make her picks based on (1) loyalty to Indiana, (2) loyalty to the Midwest and (3) the jerseys she likes.

And it's the reminder that no matter how far apart we are, or how old we get, some things never change. And when it comes to these guys, that's just the way I like it.

 

warmed me up

I don't often seek out cold weather voluntarily, so heading to Chicago in mid-March, the time of year when the Mason-Dixon line divides the Midwest and South most clearly with a thermometer, might not seem like something I'd do. But the thing about Chicago is that there are so many people there that I love, that even when it's snowing, I'm warmed all the way to my core. 

This weekend, I visited Sara and Katie in Chicago for St. Patrick's day and the weekend was pure bliss. It's weird, because you think you're obsessed with people and then you have a weekend like this and become even more obsessed when you didn't even think that was possible. 

  

Friday, we went to a new bar called Bub City, which plays country music exclusively. My dear friend Callie met up with us, which only made it that much sweeter. Callie and I met freshman year of college when we were at UChicago and although I left for Indiana sophomore year, we never miss a beat when we're together. 

{Old picture because we were, as Callie said, too busy dancing to snap pics Friday night. But this girl needs some air time.}

Saturday, our friend Austin had a party. He'd planned for it to be exclusively rooftop, but the snow had other plans in mind. It turned into an indoor/outdoor when-you-could-handle-it party. 

{Loved loved loved seeing Kelley & Allyson. A lot.}

Sunday, we went to Sara's spin class before I flew out. It was hard. Sara the spin instructor rocked us. We incentivized it with the promise of large coffees afterward. At one point, when we were climbing a hill and struggling through, Katie looked over at me and mouthed: COFFEE. It was worth the work. 

After the whirlwinding died down Sunday afternoon, we realized I had 15 minutes to shower and leave for the airport. And then we were like: Wait. What happened? Where did this weekend go? It just began. 

And we didn't think it was cool of the airline for demanding promptness. 

So I'm counting down the days until I can see these amazing people again soon. I'm thinking a Cinco de Mayo celebration just might be in order. Until then...

¡Olé!